HAVE U GOT A SOULMATE OR PLATONIC SOULMATE?SURE SIGNS

1. They push you to become a better person.

The foundation for a deep soul connection is that you push each other to be better people inside and out.

They are a positive influence in your life, and being with them has a noticeable effect on your happiness and wellbeing.

Not only that, but they help you grow and develop as a person. They may challenge you in ways you don’t expect, and as a result, you will become stronger. Or, they may push you to try new things and get outside of your comfort zone.

2. They support your aspirations.

You can always count on your platonic soulmate to be your number one supporter. No matter what dream you’re chasing, they will be by your side, cheering you on.

They support your aspirations and want you to succeed, but they can also be brutally honest at times. They don’t want you to get your hopes up and aren’t afraid to give you a reality check if you need it.

This doesn’t mean they don’t believe in you – it simply means they want to ensure you are on the right track to reach your goals.

You can sit in silence comfortably.

For many people, silence feels awkward, so they feel an urge to fill it with meaningless small talk. Sitting in silence is comforting rather than unsettling when you’re with your friend and soulmate.

You are so used to being together that you’re totally fine just relaxing in each other’s company. You don’t feel like you have to be constantly talking, so you never struggle to find topics of conversation to fill the void.

You can also feed off each other’s energy to know when to make conversation or just sit in silence together.

4. Your personalities complement each other.

One of the telltale signs you’ve found your soulmate is if your personalities complement each other. You aren’t exactly alike, but you aren’t opposites, either.

For example, maybe you’re shy and introverted, but your platonic soulmate is more outgoing. Or perhaps you’re someone who likes to plan, while they are more spontaneous. You both bring different strengths and weaknesses to the table that can make your relationship stronger.

Think of it like peanut butter and jelly – you balance each other by bringing out each person’s best qualities.

5. You share similar likes and dislikes.

You wouldn’t be platonic soulmates if you didn’t like the same things! After all, the things you have in common are what brought you together in the first place.

This isn’t to say that you share identical interests, but many of your likes and dislikes should match up. Maybe you share a love for a particular hobby or a distaste for a certain activity.

Even when it comes to trivial matters such as your favorite restaurant, you share the same or similar opinions.

6. You don’t need to go out to have fun.

Some friendships are only fulfilling when you’re doing something fun or interesting together. But these types of relationships often break down when you don’t go out. Maybe you realize you don’t enjoy their company that much after all.

When you find your platonic soulmate, you will have fun together no matter what you’re doing.

You don’t necessarily need to go out to have a good time. You always enjoy having them around, even if it’s just sitting beside each other on the couch or having a movie night with a bowl of popcorn.

7. They are always there when you need them.

Your platonic soulmate is always just one phone call away. They’re the first person you want to talk to whenever you need a listening ear or a shoulder to cry on.

No matter what time of day or night, you can call them up if you’re in trouble, and they’ll be there as soon as possible. Even if they have to go out of their way to change their schedule, they always figure out a way to be there for you.

Because of their dependable nature, you will find yourself relying on them more and more.

 

 8. You can overlook their flaws.

Everyone has flaws, but when it comes to a friend you have a deep soul connection with, you’ll be able to overlook them easily.

This doesn’t mean they’re perfect – no one is! You can recognize their imperfections. Not only will you tolerate their flaws, but you may grow to care for them even more despite these imperfections!

Seeing each other’s flaws and becoming closer, as a result, is what a true soulmate friendship is all about.

  9.It feels like something’s missing when you’re apart.

Maybe you can’t place your finger on it, but something feels off when you’re away from your best friend soulmate. It’s almost as if there’s a hole in your heart. Whether you are apart for hours, days, or weeks, life isn’t the same without them around.

However, even though you miss them, you make the most of it by texting and video chatting whenever possible.

When you finally do reconnect, it’ll be like no time has passed at all. Your bond will be just as strong as when you left it.