SEX-PLANNED OR SPONTANEOUS??
Taking into account your desires shows that you are looking for effective treatments and shared satisfaction.
Spontaneous sex can be a fantastic experience for both partners. You can describe it, as an easily obtained orgasm after a burst of passion. According to a study at a German university, however, this is a complete myth. It is often idealized, as the result of a distorted perception of the media.
It turns out that planned sex is far more satisfying than incidental bedroom meetings. No one says how it should be planned, as long as the two parties agree on it, says a scholarly article, published in ‘The Journal of Sex Research’. And it usually occurs in long-term relationships, making the people in them feel good about life.
If you are one of those who think that the pleasure of having sex with a partner will fade over time, you should quickly change your viewpoint. On the contrary, couples that respect the mutual sexual desire and satisfaction stay longer together. Or do you think that planning an intimate schedule takes away from its spicy value? Taking into account your desires shows that you are looking for effective treatments and shared satisfaction. It means that you are valuing quality over quantity.
Sexology experts advise the following to make your planned intimate sessions better:—–
- Use Language, As a Tool of Communicating Your Desires, Before Going to Bed;
- Pay Attention to the Details of the Setting – Music, Clothing, Food, & Beverages;
- Do Not Be Afraid to Experiment If Your Partner Agrees;
- Let Foreplay Ignite the Spark of Passion;
- Have Lots of Physical Contact before the Session – Touches, Hugs, & Caresses;
Foreplay is much more arousing, intimate, and connecting than the actual sexual act. During the love game, we truly reveal ourselves to our partner. This gives us the ability to merge, both physically and spiritually.
Foreplay is very valuable in long-term relationships. It distracts us from everyday stress and sends us into the world of true passion. Foreplay is a must if you want to enjoy intense sex. When you focus on it, the pleasure increases slowly and is much greater than a few tender kisses and just going back to the basics. This is also a good way to make your partner feel secure and eliminate premature ejaculation and sexual dysfunction.
Here is how to enjoy truly exciting foreplay:
- Know Your Partner’s Erogenous Zones & Pay Attention to Them.
- Don’t Play It by the Book – Use Your Intuition.
- Make Sure That You Are in a Safe & Relaxed Environment.
